Even though it can feel like narcissists seem to follow the same script of gaslighting, manipulation, lying, and cheating, no two stories of abuse are ever quite the same. And because victims of narcissistic abuse are often isolated from family members or friends, it can be hard to find your voice again and share your experiences.

But here’s the thing. The world wants to hear your story. The world needs to hear your story.

Remember the first time you heard someone describe what narcissistic abuse is? It probably felt like they had a front row seat into what your life was/is like with your narc partner. For many people, the insight you gain can make you feel sad, shocked — and also, finally, seen.

And most of all, the biggest realization dawns on you: you’re not crazy. What’s happening to you isn’t in your head. It’s real.

So, you start consuming as much content about narcissistic abuse as you possibly can. Each video, each expert, each article sheds a little more light into your relationship, but what really might make the most impact are the personal stories. You know that you’re not alone. There are others out there going through the exact same thing as you. If their stories of survival helped you also organize your own exit plan, or even offered some insight into your own relationship, imagine what yours could do for someone else?

So if you want to offer inspiration to others, educate people on the perils of a narcissistic relationship, or simply vent, Sleeping With The Narcemy is your safe space to do so. Your stories can be anonymous, but they should be told. And it doesn’t matter what stage you’re at in your journey — being able to share it with others will put purpose to the pain, and I promise, it will inspire others to not only take back their lives, but give them the strength, courage, and resolve to break those trauma bonds and become who they’re truly meant to be.

    (*Can Be Anonymous)